Quote: it's also that I wrote a post for someone in Infidelity that had me revisiting so much stuff -- and just reminded me how I still wish I understood more about what happened, and why.
I read it and it was very powerful. I felt/feel so many of the things that you described.
Quote: So...what the heck is my psyche trying to say?
My ASSumption -- that there WAS in fact no practical, rational reason for the time period when h was involved with ow. That the stuff he said to me then, his behavior toward me, towards us, in the midst of the EA was akin to him leaving over blue cheese...just as weird and senseless and irrational.
Excellent interpretation! I believe that this is the medium by which we receive so many of our messages and answers about what ails us. I have had three very powerful dreams in the past that have all had messages or roadmaps for me to follow.
Quote: I'm not saying that h didn't have some valid beefs about our r but so much of what was said, his reactions to me during that time were off the charts.
This is what I'm feeling as well. I just posted something on my thread that brought this feelings back for me. So, it is senseless, needless, irrational, off the charts, etc....but how can they (or at least my H) hurt me this way? continue to behave in a way that he KNOWS is hurtful? and I know this is an ASSumption but how can they NOT know that infidelity is wrong and hurtful to the LBS???
Sorry for the hijack.
Quote: Anyway...I'm putting my psyche's message in the positive category
Excellent! You know, blue cheese would be the last cheese he would eat and OW would be the last choice he would make...he has YOU!
