I realized recently, that my lawyer and I have done pretty much all the work for the divorce. My lawyer has written up all of the papers, and I had to be the one to look at our assets and put together an actual proposal.
All she's done is make a 2 sentence proposal via an email to her lawyer way back when. It wasn't until she got my counter proposal that she didn't like that she actually wanted to have any sort of discussion about it.
