I hardly am the person to advise you on responding. I just wanted to jump in an say that I read your thread and so much of the behavior from your H is right on the same with my MLCer. (I feel like if we crossed paths at the market, we might comment like women do with toddlers, “how old is yours? Has he hit this benchmark?” Since my BD a year ago, my H has not left! You can read my thread, but as I read yours and the comments, one thing that stuck out was how your H has connected with former friends. I am just beginning to see that.
Your situation is something I needed to read. I always love when I see someone dealing with the same issue, and I hate it as well. No one deserves this. I really had to think back to see if I could figure out a trigger for MLC and a month before BD I had surgery. He was already acting distant for a long time but I think the surgery was the tipping point.
Anyway, I don’t want to hijack your post, just to comment that you are not alone, and we will get through this.
