If you think it's more likely MLC, I suggest that you take some time and visit the MLC forum. The MLC forum has a lot of valuable information that may prove useful to you as you walk this path.
Try to remember that this is a marathon, not a sprint and once again, you didn't break him, therefore you can't fix him. He has to do the heavy lifting in fixing himself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
