Originally Posted by unchien

I'm not happy that things are coming to this. It's great to have legal protections. Unfortunately, when it comes to fighting for your kids through the legal system, things can and will get ugly. What a shame. I don't care about the MR, but I do care about the pointlessness of this bickering. I'm going to be paying for lawyers' kids to go to college. My W can't let go of her abuse narrative and it's leading us to MAD.


U, I'm so sorry for the difficulty of your sitch. This "ace card" you have to play, are you mentally ready to play it? You sound like you really have yourself together. I'm not happy for your sitch but I am happy reading your growth over the months here.

The battle your W is putting up is unnecessary. Only the lawyers win in a drawn out battle. Why she feels the need to battle, I dont have a clue.

You're handling your sitch better than I mine, and mines more peaceful. Its impressive. Keep that strength. Looking forward to your next updates.


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