Not much as changed in the last month. He's still hot and cold with me, but hasn't been going out in the evenings, so I'm not sure if he's not moving out now or what.
I'm not supposed to ask right?
He's out of town during the week for two weeks now, so it's been different adapting to just me and the kids, but I've been making it work.
I'm really hating living in limbo, but I keep doing my thing, taking care of me (and the kids) and not worrying about him or what he's doing/going.
I don't know if I'm doing the right thing by not asking questions about the future. I keep reminding myself everyday that he's leaving, but it's been a month and a half since he said he found a place and has made no movement towards moving out.
Its got to be rough... hanging in a stagnant state like that.
All I can offer is keep doing what you are doing. He hasn't left yet. That has to say something. Continue to not apply pressure. But, continue to look like you are living your own life independent of him. Start working on that mystery of who you are and what you are up too.
