immerse yourself in validation and DB. If she is this emotional you may have a chance to turn it around if you can avoid stepping on your own foot. How do you avoid that? Detach. Think and act, no more feel and react. I think you did fine in that convo but could do better still. Keep improving.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.