Lol!! This made me laugh. Maybe you could direct him to the right places to seek help? Tell him to google “how to not be co-dependent” himself? Lol. But for him to ask for help nonetheless is a good step towards the right direction I think?
He shared that he is reading about codependency right now. Apparently he has at least one resource, but, considering, the material hasn't fully been absorbed.
Originally Posted by wooba
Your H does sound very confused still. It sounds like he’s at least making effort to become a better person. So before he makes significant progress on that, he will still be confused and his behavior and words will continue to confuse you. Hang in there!!
I honestly am struggling with resentment on the improvements. These are all areas that I wanted him to work on for years. And that's probably why he didn't--because it was my idea and not his. However, I'm trying to look at the end result, which is he's a better person and that benefits us all whether or not we divorce.
