Quote: If you've stopped by, you know that I sort of tried it yesterday and didn't feel very good about it. I felt so bad that I called back and apologized. Last night was the the first night in while that he didn't stop by. BUT, he did stop by earlier and greeted me; although not warmly. SO....I'm still confused but I'll continue on my path and you're right; benevolence is never a bad idea. Cathy puts it as "kill them with kindness".
I did the same thing, would say something, stand up for myself and then feel awful about it, call H back and more or less say I was sorry. I would then explain where I was coming from and once H heard it, then felt better myself. So don't give up, we shouldn't feel bad for standing up for ourselves and asking something of someone that IS important to US. Am I making any sense here?
