Went out on friday (yes, slept at brothers place). Felt nice to look at other women in bars with a different "mindset". Today I did a crossfit workout called Murph. Just under 40 minutes which is pretty good. Told wife this morning I was going to do it and she seemed impressed. In general it feels like she is trying to "catch up" with me and make sure we are in a good place. Doing more house work, mowed our lawn, made me a sandwich this morning etc Perhaps she is having some regret. But probably not. To me it just feels like shes getting away with everything she has done..
Also, negotiated with my boss to remove my bonus and instead have a bit higher salary. This will allow me to buy her out of the house. Will bring this up tonight. Not sure if W still feels she needs to "get out..".
Last edited by Mumin; 05/10/2011:12 AM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021