Lots of positives for you...good stuff! Love the "try a different beer" idea. How cool!
Quote: Confession time...that note was actually included for you -- jeez -- how passive aggressive! (Sorry!).
You, bad girl you!
Don't worry about it; I know EXACTLY what you mean and I'm glad that you posted this message here for me as I needed it. I've been having a hard time asking you lately because I know you don't subscribe to that approach.
I, too, get confused as to what will work. My H is a stubborn little one. Also, I don't think that I'm not ready to do what was suggested plus I don't think it's in me. It's perfectly solid advice but I don't know.....
If you've stopped by, you know that I sort of tried it yesterday and didn't feel very good about it. I felt so bad that I called back and apologized. Last night was the the first night in while that he didn't stop by. BUT, he did stop by earlier and greeted me; although not warmly. SO....I'm still confused but I'll continue on my path and you're right; benevolence is never a bad idea. Cathy puts it as "kill them with kindness".
Thank you once again my friend.
Anyway, even of hijacking your thread. Hope you have a wonderful day and good night at school.
BUT, he did stop by earlier and greeted me; although not warmly. 
