Hi KC When you gave him the blanket it comes off as you are giving him your time, something you enjoy and went out of your way to do for him. It’s a gift that my guess would be hopefully makes him think of you and makes him miss you. Regardless of your intention that’s how it comes off. It’s either gonna be something him and the OW laugh at you about or it’s gonna make the OW mad and in turn make your H mad at you. If you wished you could have talked about the relationship or how to fix things I promised he sensed that. That’s pursuit and pressure.
As far as why he won’t expedite the divorce there’s no need too.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
