Hi all, just a quick check in, the ball is still being moved forward toward D and at this point I’m detaching and finally accepting that he has to figure out his own situation and I’m making the best decisions for the kiddos at this point. Question for the LBS, what did you tell the kids? I told him I would not lie to them and tell them that I was on board with the decision (to make it easier for him) because that is not my truth but I don’t want to create extra heart ache for kiddos. . . How do you tell (and explain) the actions of WAS to kiddos? It would make more sense to them if we had been screaming and fighting all the time but the way it played out was everything seemed fine and then he was just gone. H told a coronavirus related story to kids when he left so they don’t “know” the direction things are headed.
I’m at a loss but that is coming up quickly.
Anyone have any advice for how they handled it? Thanks
