Hi Sage!

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went shopping after he left...looking for lounge chairs (no luck) and ended up with a bikini instead!




I'm jealous! There is no way I can put on a bikini these days and go out in public.

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and he said "that's a good example of reaping what you sow...it's your thoughtfulness that taught me how to do it".



This is so awesome Sage!...and...your H is right!

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Dr. Phil last week and he was saying how keeping a "benevolent spirit" towards your spouse is critical no matter what your sitch...I like to think that this attitude even when the crap was hitting the fan made a positive difference!




Ahhh...once again you write the perfect thing for my current frame of mind! I've been looking for an answer and getting myself all confused about what my "spirit" towards my H should be. Thank you.

Have a good one!
Minnie