Just doing some quick catching up...it's the tail end of the LONG weekend and I know if I wait until tomorrow -- when I'm back at work and all, then I will forget stuff or get too caught up to post....
Was at class all day Friday then met h to go to a party at his parent's house...not much to report there although his mom and dad (who have had their bumps in recent years) seem really good right now and are totally enjoying each others company!
Saturday I went into town early then out to lunch with dad while h went to the bball game with a friend. we had a mellow evening at home just watching some tv and bringing chinese food in. lots of positives just hanging out together.
Sunday we went on a hike and then h did homework while I did quite a bit of gardening...we went out last night for drinks and food. h was super cute asking me out on the "date". I forget how this came up but while we were hiking I commented that he had been really thoughtful about something for me...and he said "that's a good example of reaping what you sow...it's your thoughtfulness that taught me how to do it". I'll take the compliment! I was listening to Dr. Phil last week and he was saying how keeping a "benevolent spirit" towards your spouse is critical no matter what your sitch...I like to think that this attitude even when the crap was hitting the fan made a positive difference!
Today we went on a KILLER hike...h told me that I'm in good shape -- that I look great and that I was kicking his A$$ setting the pace! Then more homework for him and more gardening for me...it's gonna take me ALL summer but this yard is going to look GREAT! Relaxed this afternoon and now h is off with a friend for errands and dinner. I'm just about to eat...went shopping after he left...looking for lounge chairs (no luck) and ended up with a bikini instead!
Should be a good week...I've got lots of work to do at work (duh) but it's a short week (yah) and next week is even shorter! (another intensive class!).
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
I forget how this came up but while we were hiking I commented that he had been really thoughtful about something for me...and he said "that's a good example of reaping what you sow...it's your thoughtfulness that taught me how to do it". 
