And then it was over.

[SteveLW]

He has fired you as his wife. So that means you need to stop providing wifely services for him. Tonight, make the kids and yourself food. When he comes down and says "where's dinner" you simply say. "I was too busy (see this is where GAL and being busy comes in!). From now on you are going to have to make your own food." THEN END THE CONVERSATION. Walk away if you have to. Go run an errand if you have to, anything.

And let me ask you and please answer honestly...........are these 15 minutes talks at night pressure and pursuit? Don't try to rationalize. Don't try to justify. Just step back from and look at it objectively.