U our situations are so similar. False abuse allegations, lack of desire to go to trial, ex living a fantastic life that we fund, etc. I totally get where you are at brother.
Took the time to read through all your updates and I resonate with almost all of it.
Be strong and do what’s best for you and for your kids.
My ex is angry...nothing I can do about that. I no longer fear her anger. She will be angry no matter what I do. So I’m doing what’s best for me and the kids. Even if it costs me a lot of money.
Don’t fear your ex. She’s got nothing factual from what I can see. Just a bunch of heresay BS. I was deathly afraid of that as well. I wrote some stupid letter too. Admitted to this and that and everything else. It’s in the past. So is the incident in the car. Don’t let the fear of ‘what if’ dominate your life.
Control what you can control. Your emotions, your actions, and your reactions. I’ve been following your thread since post #1 and I can say for sure your tone has changed. You were surely all over the map when this first started!!! You’re much more grounded and level headed. Fight for what is right and fight for what you want. You’ve got this!
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
