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..also, he assured me that next weekend (it's a LONG one!) would be filled with us doing "fun stuff"!



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So having this to look forward to makes this really busy weekend not as bad, right?

No reason to 'chose' to be "mildly grumpy"!

Your life is wonderful, you and h are wonderful! Smile and you'll feel better.

Besides frowning takes more facial muscles to do than smiling and you don't want frown lines!


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Got home from work fairly early and h was already there from his baseball game. We relaxed for a while -- I read the newspaper, we both watched the Sox game...and both fell asleep for a bit!

Relaxed a bit more and then decided to go out to dinner and a movie...had a great time at both! Lots of fun hanging out with my awesome hubby!

School starts again tonight for him...not much of a break between semesters (4 days!) but I think he's psyched about starting up some new classes.



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Hi Sage,

How was H's first day of work?

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Relaxed a bit more and then decided to go out to dinner and a movie...had a great time at both!



Sounds like one of your KLA goals is right on schedule.

Hope you have a great day!
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How was H's first day of work?




AWESOME! He's been there 2.5 days and he's already written a response to a motion (or some such thing) -- looks like he's going to have a tremendous amount of responsibility!

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Sounds like one of your KLA goals is right on schedule.




YUP.

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I think I'm a bottomless pit for Love Languages...I've always thought mine were "words of affirmation" and "physical touch" with a bit (ok, not small!) of "quality time" thrown in! Now I have to add "acts of service"...got home from school last night and found a plate of various little mini-sandwiches with a note that said "snacks 4 u" from h. Now mind you, HE had had HIS first night of school, too, so it wasn't as though he was hanging out with a ton of time on his hands!

It just felt SO thoughtful and special to me! (+++++)

Other good stuff...sat with me on the couch while we watched "The Sopranos", lots of good interaction, etc. Told me a bunch about his day, asked awesome questions about mine...



Lucky, grateful Sage



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Sounds like a nice nite!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy!

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Little sandwiches. How sweet and cute and thoughtful.

Keep it up, Sage, you and H are inspirations.


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Sage - still looking for the KEY that says "this is what happened that led to that that led to this that led to the bomb."





Don't we kindda need to though? in order not to get there again?





Minnie -- well, yah, we need to know the factors that contributed but I was sort of poking fun at myself that I keep looking for the laundry list:

we were happy
you did this
I did this
you did this
I did this
you did this - twice!
etc





Oh wow -- I'm glad I'm not the only person who keeps looking for THE answer. Actually, my dh has been seeking the answer to "what happened" for a long time too. I'm kind of depressed that we may never know because then I'll always wonder if we're repeating history. I guess I need to stop those thoughts with thoughts of how different *I'm* going to be from now on -- so history can't repeat, right?

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Hey Sage,

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AWESOME! He's been there 2.5 days and he's already written a response to a motion (or some such thing) -- looks like he's going to have a tremendous amount of responsibility!




It sounds as if your H has taken off running at his job. Good stuff!

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I think I'm a bottomless pit for Love Languages



I laughed when I read this! I am too. My H used to show me all five. I think my primary is QT and PT...but I know I love all five!

Hope you had a good day today. Missed ya.

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Been lurking last 2 days (well yesterday and today) but haven't posted due to mucho work and a group project! Yuck!

Have a presentation at school tomorrow and we are dragging it out until the LAST MINUTE! I hate that!

Anyway -- date with h Tuesday night, school last night (but great emails from him!) -- got lots of time together planned for the weekend so I'm psyched about that! He sounds kind of draggy today...says it's him crashing from work + school + exams so I'm gonna see what I can do to make the landing soft!

Not sure I'll be able to post tomorrow but I will be reading up on all of you!

Sage


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