IW ~ She is stalling because on every front she stands to lose.
I'm over-paying support by several K per month, not seeing the kids as much as I should by any reasonable metric, and she continues to live in a mountain mansion with beautiful views. She hasn't gone back to work although she's rented office space for 18 months. Why would she be in a rush? She is advocating for the lifestyle she wants, and the longer this plays out, the better for her.
All of these issues will be coming to a head soon. Retaining a L was one of the best decisions I ever made. I have options, I have ways out.
