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That night I woke up in the early morning and saw things clearly. She has no desire for me. There is no attraction, she is light years from home.

Good.

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Then she referred to it as “I guess you would call it the rental now.” I asked “How’s the rental going, making any money on it?

Good.

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She showed me some pictures and I commented on a spiral staircase and said that could be in the next house as she always wanted an upstairs.
I wouldn't discuss any plans for the future.

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I’ve noticed that she has a tendency to throw herself into many tasks simultaneously when she is trying to distract herself, probably from having to deal with her past proclivities and the current state of our MR.
Sounds like a GAL plan.

I like your GAL plan too, but I'd dump the earrings. Get her a card and have a nice day with the kids. You even said she isn't feeling attraction towards you right now, so don't go buying jewelry - it is desperation and women hate that.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.