"He has moved out. Has OW. Bought a house. Wants a D. AND, I still can't stop asking him questions to get his attention."
^^^ EXXXXXAAAACTLY!!!!! ^^^
KC, do you hear that sizzling sound? That's your hand on the hot stove again
Yup... I didn't really get it until SamCal phrased it like that.
I need to answer business questions with the same amount of words AND stop telling him about my business and stop asking him to do ANYTHING.
He will be at the house again on Saturday. I will be cool as a cucumber and aloof. I think I'm better at handling myself in person... I get carried away in texts... get caught up in the back and forth.
But I'm getting it - especially today... I'm driving down the road and for just a few seconds think about H and then was like - "just don't care right now" and kept on driving.
I appreciate the doses of reality. They do really help.
