I can't believe I'm actually going to say this but as long as you don't fuch this up you may have a slight chance here. The problem of course is it should be the other way around and she should be doing the heavy lifting. If you can stay out of your own way and keep the focus on you this could possibly slowly turn around.
You should have had the attitude that she is here because of COVID and for the kids. Once quarantine is over she goes back to the rental. If she wants to work on the relationship great she does the heavy lifting. If not, that's ok too. Then you decide what you want to do moving forward.
That fact that you think she's going to jump back in like nothing happened is disturbing Curtis and shows you've done nothing to educate yourself about women, relationships and your own self worth. You can't buy her love and you should return those earrings immediately. This isn't a rom com Hollywood movie where you give her the earrings and she falls into your arms. These are the exact reasons why she's not attracted to you. People are not attracted to other people who jump through hoops for them. They ate attracted to people who are confident and command respect.
History shows you won't tame my advice but I keep hoping that at some point you might say, "maybe these db people know what they are talking about".
