Thanks for posting on my thread. I didn't realize there was someone else with a sitch so similar to mine. I just don't know what is going through our H's mind. Besides sex, what else do they have in common with the OW? I wonder if it makes them feel young again?
My H is still talking to OW. He had a trip planned to visit his "parents" (same town where OW lives) later this month but those plans were cancelled due to the pandemic. I'm relieved he's not going because I'm not detached enough to handle all of those emotions. My H still comes home every weekend to work on the house and he acts like my friend. I don't want to be his friend or his plan B. I want him to want me.
I read your entire thread and I admire your strength. You have done great with the GAL and I admire your patience.
Me: 47 H: 45 T: 24 M:23 D23 BD #1 12/19: ILYBNILWY BD #2 2/20: I discovered H was having an affair with OW. (OW is 21 and lives in another country) Current R status: Separated.
