I’ve wondered how you are doing. We are close in our timelines. He’s so weird.
For instance, today he left for work early, as usual. I came home at lunch from work, he wasn’t here. I came home after work, he’s closed up in the bedroom. I won’t see him at all. He’s really living the dream, huh?
Me, on the other hand, I have control of the house, I make what I want to have for dinner, watch what I feel like on tv, or not watch and read. I go to bed when ever I feel like it. It can be lonely if you think about it, but our D is still home for who knows how long and I spend time with her when she’s not studying.
I am just focusing on me. Like I said in other posts, I am not ready for the conversation regarding our relationship and he hasn’t brought it up. But really, I think if I was wanting out I would make a plan, announce my intentions and go. He in a moment of anger/frustration said he didn’t want to be married and is still here. Yes, I know of the OW, but regardless, he’s still here.