Originally Posted by sandi2
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Is there any merit in me just asking her what’s going on? Or do I just ignore it and remain no contact.

I will tell you, this is really bothering me, I’m trying to let it go, but I just can’t stop thinking about it.


You have to stop yourself from asking her anything. She is still thick in the affair fog, and having another talk is not going to accomplish anything, except being told it's none of your business.



THIS!!!!

Remember, doing nothing is better than doing the wrong thing. Always. We all think "one more talk and I can get through to them". You can't. When will they change their mind? When they decide to. Not a second before. No matter what you say or do. Or don't say and don't do.


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