I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 11

[LH19]

UGH -- so its going to cost $600 to fix my 4yr old $800 Dishwasher...

I'm sorry to hear about your dishwasher.

For the first 10 seconds I want to text my H... and though that is a stupid thing to text him over - what in the world is he going to say or what to do for that matter. The urge passed very quickly.

Great job resisting!

I packed myself up and went Lowe's and bought a dishwasher. It's still going to be over 2 weeks before its delivered and set up install... frustrating.

Just out of curiosity if it's just you and your son do you really need a dishwasher?

He seems to find something mundane to contact me about nearly daily. This was about the phone bill. I answered it in 3 words!!!

Good! You kept it business like.

But, then I slipped and texted that the repair on the dishwasher was $600. He said *#%! what happened to it? I responded and told him I was at the store buying a new one.

Trying to keep the convo going is pursuit. Which of course never works.

I half halfheartedly asked if he wanted to save me $130 and install it. He said "I can on Saturday I guess". [Saturday is the agreed upon date for him to work on the fence and collect more things].

See my comment above.

He has moved out. Has OW. Bought a house. Wants a D. AND, still can't tell me no....

This is guilt. He wants to know you will be ok with out him.

Seeing how its going to be another month before the woman who does my hair is allowed to be working again... I had to pick up box color at the store... I hate coloring my own hair because you can't see the back of your own head! Wish me luck.

Good luck!

KK this mistakes are not game changing but your margin for error is small. You have a 1 year deadline to turn this around. That is never going to happen unless he gets curious about you. How is that going to happen when you are an open book and keep showing him how you need him?