Is there any merit in me just asking her what’s going on? Or do I just ignore it and remain no contact.
I will tell you, this is really bothering me, I’m trying to let it go, but I just can’t stop thinking about it.
You have to stop yourself from asking her anything. She is still thick in the affair fog, and having another talk is not going to accomplish anything, except being told it's none of your business.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
