Once again, your advice is priceless! Thank you so much for taking your time! If you have any invincible duct tap that would be fkn Awesome!
I have to purchase duct tape on an industrial scale.
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I have always had to drag her through any type of serious talk.
I know what you mean. I think it becomes a problem when we are asking them questions, trying to get them to talk.....and it's easy to prompt, b/c it's so frustrating for us. In the past, if I was talking to my H, or most anyone, if I asked a question to get them to talk, if they didn't say something pretty quickly, I would be firing more at them. But.....are we doing them or ourselves a favor? I wonder if your W doesn't try very much, b/c she knows you are going to speak for her?
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What I did feel this weekend though was a bit sadness for my D2 that mom wasn't around on her birthday party.
She may not have felt as sad as her daddy felt for her.
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I actually asked W again on Saturday but she said she was still feeling sick. But might as well have been she wanted to avoid the social gathering and its risk of questions and shame.
I'm by invitations like I am giving an apology. Invite one time. Apologize one time. It's up the other person to accept.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
