Thank you Woo a and Oceangl- Patient or avoidance, either way his behavior at this point is leaving for work, coming home, heading for a walk, comes home takes shower closes himself in the room. He will say hi if he happens to walk in a room I am in. At this point, I am used to this. When he left after the BD for work, I got used to being alone. I think it helped.
I remarked to my IC yesterday, I should tell H happy one year BD. Lol. I won’t. I know eventually we will have some sort of conversation, but I’m not ready, so I won’t ask.