Hey oceangirl!!! I was wondering where you’ve been! Glad to hear from you again.
He asked you to show physical affection, what about him? What is HE doing to contribute to the relationship? I forget the details of your M but it is strange for him to expect you to do all the work. Has he even shown remorse about his A?
He has not done anything. Today he did hug me twice...so that was shocking. Does it mean anything? Will it stick? I don't know.
He shows remorse for his affair, but he has a lot of trouble with shame so he rarely brings it up with me. So has he done the work in that way? I don't think so. Our therapist noted he has a hard time with dealing w emotions. It's almost like I am a reminder of it and getting rid of me gets rid of the biggest reminder.
me: 46 h: 49 m: 24 T: 27 DD1:20 DD2:17 DS:12 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019 Now: He is in the same house, but has filed for divorce.
