Originally Posted by may22
oceangirl!! I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are doing. Is the discussion around the weekly trade-offs and you living in a different house the week he is in town over? This whole quarantine thing must be such a shift for you from before.

I'm glad you're back-- interested to hear more about what is going on.

xx M


May!!! I'm so happy to "see" you!!!! I am going to catch up on your life also.
Since we started therapy and with the quarantine throwing a wrench into things we are all still in the same house. I hoped it would make some sort of HUGE difference. Ugh, the way we can get our hopes up. We are all here in the same house. And if you walked in you would see us watching movies together, playing games, looking pretty normal. He just sends the message to me he tries not to connect.


me: 46 h: 49
m: 24 T: 27
DD1:20 DD2:17 DS:12
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019
Now: He is in the same house, but has filed for divorce.