Hi Sage, I just got to skim through your thread here. I've read bits and pieces of your other threads, but you are always such and inspiration. I never post much to you because I don't know what I could add.
I sure have a question though---How do/did you get your H to ask you out on dates? that's one of my dreams! was he always like that? I can't remember if I asked you before, but were you 2 separated at one time? How long have you been dbing?

I got a lot out of your thoughts on giving up the "shoulds"...I've tried to work on that for my H since I started dbing, and I feel like that is part of what caused problems for me/us.....thanks as always for your inspiration.
Deb


been around awhile!