In fact, I posted on a dating app last night - and overnight got many messages and likes - and it validated me that there are potential partners out there that 'want' me (yeah, I lost 30 pounds & that helped, I feel better about myself) I took myself off the app early this morning.
Try cultivating that confidence within yourself instead of looking outward for approval from others.
Originally Posted by MistySea
I asked him about his departure and requested he not to leave in the middle of the night. He said he would let me know. I asked him to stay and continue to try, but he is convinced he no longer loves me. I let him know that I understood that he could not really know if these changes are permanent unless he stuck around...
This is pursuing. Let him go when he wants to go and allow him to go through his journey on his own.
Originally Posted by MistySea
and I fully understood what a chance he would be taking to stay and trust me after all these bad years of hurting him.
