It's been a while since I've posted anything, my schedule has been insanely crazy between peak holiday season and then the whole corona virus thing going on work has been very busy. (In which I hope everyone is staying safe and sane).
In general things have been going very well for me the last few months, my app saw a burst of success at the beginning of the year. Like I said above work has been busy so I've picked up tons of overtime, I've been making great strides on rebuilding my credit, managed to refinance my car I got last year and lower my payments quite a bit while keeping the same amount of payments remaining.
I've also been putting myself out there more now, and have talked to and met a few woman but things didn't really match up between us until about a week ago when I met someone in which we have so many things in common it's almost scary, way more then me and the STBX (more on that later). But it's been an absolute joy talking with her. Something I never really had with the STBX.
As for things with the STBX, she really tried to do a number on me. My attorney and her were discussing how we would proceed and once she realized I was serious about making her pay her share of the bills she had gone and filed herself and didn't have me served but instead went to the paper saying she didn't know where to find me. While she doesn't know where I live, I've had the same job for 13 years and can easily have had me served there. Anyway, I had caught the notice in the paper thanks to my mom with less then a week to respond to the court in which I contacted my attorney and we got a response filled and a counter petition. I've also told my attorney I am done trying to be reasonable and now I will be making this real pricey for her as I'm done tolerating her crap.
But anyway, I'm making my way to the greener pasture and everything is looking up. I'll be getting together this weekend with the girl I met and were going to spend some time together and just see how it all goes from there.
Hope everyone stays safe out there, it's some crazy times for sure.
M(32) W(30) Together 12yrs Married 2yrs ILYBNILWY 11/23/18 EA Discovered 3/20/19
In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19 W Moved out 3/20/19 M Moved out 5/31/19 W Filed for D 3/3/2020