I've muted his texts. I have found more peace that I have muted his texts.
Yay! I had wondered if your not muting him was more a mental hang-up or a technical one. Muting their texts was a step forward for me. It didn't stop me from seeing their texts 3-4hrs later (can you really wait 1-2 days?!), but it meant I didn't get a "ding" when I was occupied by pleasant things like a run or watching a movie or napping. Which is helpful if your goal is to detach (because you love you, and them).
YUP! The first day... not really. Mostly because I've never used that feature and wasn't sure how it really worked... LOL. However now, yeah... I think once every 24hr is all I need to check in and I think once all his stuff is gone 2 or more days would be easy at this point.
I'm really at a point where he does occupy my thoughts at times but I have no emotion... I'm like ehhh...
