Had a great night last night....got home from work and h and I went for a walk (+). I like taking the time to get out, get some exercise...it's a good opportunity for us to talk, too, although I'm finding that walking together in quiet is good too!

h asked me out on a date for tomorrow night. (+) Nice to be on the receiving end of such a lovely invite! h has LOTS going on in the next day or two...his last exam is tonight!!! And his first day of his internship is tomorow! Goodness, the man is a dynamo!

Finally documented positive is a biggie...we were sitting together last night and out of the blue h says "you know, I think that you have a picture of yourself as much more stressed out, much more demanding (can't remember the exact word...impatient? critical?) and much more high maintanence that you really are....I don't think you give yourself enough credit for how relaxed you really are...how much more easy going you are than you think. I guess that's because you have such high standards".

WOW. It's true that my stressness, my "lack" of easygoingness has been something that I've been noting and trying to change for a while...I can FEEL that I've relaxed a great deal and it's WONDERFUL that h has not only NOTICED and MENTIONED but that he thinks I'm even MORE easygoing than I DO!!!!

GOOD STUFF.

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.