M,

I’m really sorry you are here but you’ve come to the right place.

Unfortunately my belief is the affair is still going on.

I wouldn’t kick him out if he is leaving anyway. I think you may be confused by the lingo so it’s best to read the links Cadet sent to you.

I would save the airfare from his brother because there is no talking sense into an MLCer.

This is going to take a really long time to play out.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this right now.