Glad the settlement is nearing completion. And fingers are crossed for a smooth disentanglement.
As for the switching of days and the extra people. I’d agree.
Yeah, OW will probably be there, so it’s nine people. The plus side is he is actually telling you. He could just go and not let you know. It’s best sometimes to not rock the boat. This sounds like one of those times.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.