Today is my 29th wedding anniversary. I don’t feel too down about it. It’s just noted in my head and heart today. I had a fleeting thought to wear my wedding ring today. But, my finger is bare.
(((Grace)))
For what it’s worth, good for you to go ring-less.
It’s ok to feel not much towards the anniversary. You are wise enough to realize your own indifference and that muted feelings are a good and healing thing.
Very good on stepping back as well. It was interesting to read how H isn’t quite ready to receive. And yeah, pull back, else wise it would be counterproductive.
Remain patient. Time will bring those answers.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.