U-A trial isn’t what I want. That’s what’s stopping me. It’s expensive and I’ll get roughly the same deal as if we can work out a settlement. I’m hopeful that all of the work my attorney and I are doing will bring her to the negotiation table. This needs to get done. It’s been 18 months and she is trying to move in with someone an hour and a half away but doesn’t have any interest in finishing our business.
LB ~ Do you have any signs that you have a chance of working out a settlement?
I know you can't share details of your legal maneuverings. I can tell you from my experience that they haven't helped much. I am prepared to go to trial for what I value most, even though it is nauseating to think about (not just financially, but emotionally). I'm pursuing alternative avenues as well with the hopes of closing this in a rational, cost-effective manner.
Two months ago I decided I was willing to go to trial for what I valued most. I waffled for 2 months on this decision. I'm so glad I made it. And due to the quarantine, things haven't even started happening yet.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.