WW post D (Thanks BenB part 3)

[Mumin]

Once again, your advice is priceless! Thank you so much for taking your time!
If you have any invincible duct tap that would be fkn Awesome!
I have always had to drag her through any type of serious talk.

she's going to have to WORK to find out. Don't try to assist her along in the dialog. Don't press her. Don't ask her leading questions. Sit there with your sunglasses on and looking like your favorite celebrity.

This! As well as not using too much words! Thanks!

My point in this particular dialog is that you keep a "cool" presence, but not a cold shoulder type of coldness. Do you know the difference, or understand what I mean?

Thanks! Yes I get it. For me this is important because when I DO mentally detach it often makes me a bit cold. Finding the balance now and for future endeavors is important.

She especially wants to know the "who".

Yes this was really obvious last weekend.

Okay, I guess you need to spell it out for me. Why does this appear more strange than anything else in your marital sitch?

Haha thanks for the pointer.
What I did feel this weekend though was a bit sadness for my D2 that mom wasn't around on her birthday party.
I actually asked W again on Saturday but she said she was still feeling sick. But might as well have been she wanted to avoid the social gathering and its risk of questions and shame.
D2 seemed to have a blast though! Tomorrow she turns 2 for real! So much love!


OH, and I have heard of the Fonz but dont know him. Will have to look it up!