Thank you LH19, just posting here helped, I just had to talk to someone about this. I don't really know what answer I'm expecting from her or anyone really. Just confirmation she is off her rocker, I suppose
I think my thought of asking her, was thinking, if I just brought out into the open, and made her actually think about what she is doing, she would suddenly realize it makes no sense. I know that's not going to happen, and I'm sure as you said I won't get the answer I want to hear, or maybe just no answer at all.
What makes it so difficult for me is we are still married, I still need to work on being detached, but it is hard when technically we are still attached...
This house thing was particularly hard, because up until now, it seemed like she was just trying to live some sort of opposite life, just a life with no responsibility, having fun all the time. At least that I could sort of understand, she has this resentment towards me and our life, so she does the complete opposite. The houses that I saw before she removed my access are ones that are almost the same as what we have now, and so now it just feels like she is recreating the same life she already had, but with someone else, and that is tough to think about it!
