Sage, I double and triple the goosebumps comment. WOW!
What a great leap forward for you.
I also feel my H feels he has failed me somehow, and that's why the EA. That he thinks somehow he is not capable of keeping me happy. It's hard to have them believe in themselves and their ability to make us happy after all the negative self talk they must have done to get to the point of feeling so inadequate.
Checking out those books you mentioned now. Thanks for the mention.
