I want to start off my saying that I’m really sorry you’re going through this right now.
Well I think you have to ask yourself what you are trying to gain by asking her this question? I can promise you that you are not going to get the answer you want to hear. Logically you know it’s not a good idea but she’s not thinking logically she is thinking emotionally. When you make decisions based on emotions there are sure to be consequences.
Statistically speaking their relationship has a low chance of working long-term.
Unfortunately that is the reality and because you are not able to accept the reality you are suffering right now.
