New to the club

[Taz]

So Monday was S20’s 21st birthday. W planned a drive about where we visited 8 friend’s homes. Each family friend had a drink waiting for him. Some of them hung out for a bit at a safe distance and had a drink with him. It was a great evening and S21 really enjoyed it. She was just like her pre BD self. We all had a great time. She even gave me her phone to text to let people know we were on way in between homes in the car. I was tempted to snoop but didn’t. I’m sure I would have discovered nothing anyhow. After returning home I thanked her for organizing and went in the house. Of course we haven’t heard from her since. It seems like she is just content seeing the Boys once every two weeks. Looks like Mother’s Day may be the next reach out touch and go.

There is one other thing I want opinions on that I haven’t mentioned before. Some time prior to BD W asked me if I remembered a friends wedding we attended. I said of course as I was a member of the wedding party. She brought up the fact that they did a wedding party dance and I danced with the girl I escorted down the aisle. She then said “ You didn’t dance with me at that wedding!” This wedding was 25 years ago. We were not even engaged at the time. I apologized and said I wish she would have talked to me about it at the time. She just turned around and walked away. I was confused at he time but didn’t realize she must be setting the stage for her departure. She has brought this up to some of her friends lately to justify why she left. They are as confused as I am about her bringing it up now.

Taz