Last night, my grandmother on my dad's side died. About 7 or 8 hours later, the grandmother on my mom's side passed as well.
Then, this morning, my W got frustrated with our D2 because she wouldn't cooperate, so she just left her sitting on the floor and walked away from her, down the stairs, and took the dog for a walk. I was just about to step into the shower when I saw my W walk past the bathroom door and out of the bedroom where my D was. She did not say a word or try to get my attention at all. If I hadn't seen her, then I would have gotten in the shower and our D would have been sitting there, alone, confused, and upset with nobody watching her.
When she got back, I told her that was not okay, and her excuse was that our D didn't want to be picked up, and I was in the next room (even though I was going to be in the shower).