If D3 wants to call or send something to Daddy, I’d just do it. Especially one way communication like emails, texts, letters, and such; H can open, read, and respond as he will. Phone calls and line video chats do take a bit of scheduling.
JUST DO IT (emails, texts, letters, and such) Yes I agree. I've been following D3s lead on this. And yes; H can respond as he will.
Originally Posted by DnJ
It is not your job to maintain or create the relationship between H and his daughter. It is your job not to destroy it.
Indeed. It's not my job to maintain that relationship or any other relationships H has. I want D3 to have the best relationship possible with her dad. He knows, and I've told him, whenever he wants to talk with her, I will do whatever it takes to make that happen, always. He knows, and it's up to him. Dropping that rope,,,right here...
Originally Posted by DnJ
Obviously, D3 is three. She is going to need some help in the logistics of long distance communicating. She is also going to need guidance in her growth. You are going to be involved when she asks why Dad did or said certain things. Just like if he was here, D3 would still have questions. Remember your job. Facilitate when D3 needs help. Validate and explain when D3 has concerns.
Spoken like the loving father that you are. Your kids are lucky to have you. Such a BIG heart.
Originally Posted by DnJ
I wouldn’t send anything about a communication schedule or strategy. Let H see and feel and suggest something.
I'm glad I reached out here first. I will just keep things as they are, and follow D3's lead.
Thanks Again.
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