If I had to guess he had one foot out the door two years ago and never fully came back to the marriage until he was able to monkey branch his way out of it.
If you dwell on these texts from him you will drive yourself crazy.
I don't believe that. I do think he recommitted because things were good... and then I tanked. He spent months trying to connect with me. I see that now. But, I was not in a good place... and it snowballed.
It is what it is. I have to deal with the present situation.
I agree. His texts throw me off but I kept it business like and didn't keep texting him. I want him to feel nothing but crickets from me.
