~j~ 00 is shipping out. He text a few details. Him & D3 did another video chat. I know it'll be a long long time before she sees him again, so I'm glad he was there for her, while he was free.
Now that I know of the ow/xgf, I'm not sure zero communication is the key. I almost wish I would of said more last year. I don't know if it would of made a difference. But I think I might just do like one email a week from D3's point of view. I didn't do anything like that last year & I regret it.
Should I ask him? I feel silly asking, it's his daughter!
Example: Hi..just wanted to ask....If D3 wants to talk to with you, can she send an email? Or mail something? I know it's not always possible for calls or video chats. Let me know what would be okay, which address to use. She'll be happy to hear from you too.
It's not my first boat ride so I know the drill. We're talking remote... D3 loves talking/sharing. Very expressive. If she wants to communicate I want to know what her options are, without ovet steping any boundaries, if there are any.
For her, I'm not going to sit and wait for him to reach out... I think with the situation the world is in, we need to just be in touch with our loved ones. I'll keep my distance, remain the friend. That's working..for now.
Thought?
Honestly in all forms is welcome.
Last edited by CanBird; 04/30/2012:30 PM.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
