Well the next year can be very simple if you want it to be. You let him get the rest of his stuff on Sunday then it’s NC accept for financial stuff. You work on healing and loving yourself. You have no young kids together. He will either miss what you had together or her won’t. I have to tell you though that being here 5 years I can’t remember one sitch where someone bought a house and moved out with their A/P and changed their mind in a year.
I went back and read your story from a couple years ago and you got a second chance and still didn’t put the effort in to repairing the M. I think that should tell you something. Have you heard of the saying “rejection breeds obsession?”